Elgin You can't say that to me! : stopping the pain of verbal abuse : an 8 step program / Suzette Haden Elgin. - New York John Wiley & Sons 1995. - xviii, 206p. 23cm Includes bibliographical references and index ISBN: 0471003999 Subjects--Topical Terms: InvectiveThreat (psychology)Verbal self-defense Dewey Class. No.: 153.6 ELG 1995